"That man will always be a child, always be innocent. God gave David to us, and He will also give us … Pray for children with disabilities to experience God’s love. Yes, God has deep and beautiful and perfect imprints on Elle. Answer: Every soul journeys down into this world with two suitcases. (Revelation 21:3, 4) In that day, “no resident will say: ‘I am sick.’” * —Isaiah 33:24. 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Kelly believes that each day should include a healthy dose of laughter. We are in this together Angela. It complicates the parent’s life in so many ways from extra doctor’s appointments, IEP meetings to picking up medication and driving to and from speech therapy many times during the week. Author of Autism's Hidden Blessings, she is a contributing writer for Believe.com and Not Alone, an online community for special needs parents. plain and simple. Aww thanks Connie for always being so sweet to E and for your love for our family! My son struggles in his own way and it’s very hard to watch. Thank you for reading Amy. He trusts you a lot, and I’m pretty sure God is really proud of you. The Bible promises that soon God will remove every disease and disability that plagues both young and old. A parent of a special needs child doesn’t get to videotape Christmas plays, revel at the child’s musical talents and athleticism, or imagine a hopeful future where the child pursues her ambitions. On January 19, 1989 we learned Jake had cerebral palsy. Thanks to dedicated administrators like yourself, kids like Elle can get the help and support they need. This is one of the things that can make it hard to move on after you find out about your child’s diagnosis. I too feel blessed to be called into the field I work in, and needed a heart reminder as the days have become so busy and hectic – I will keep your words in my mind and heart as I enter my meetings this coming week and key in more closely to the heart’s of the parents I meet with. Watch Queue Queue I am not a bad person. Thank you so much for being courageous enough to share your story. I just wanted to … Thank you Helen. So please don’t call me “special,” because I don’t call you that either. Why some people don’t have parents? Few things in my ministry have given me a deeper sense of satisfaction than seeing God raise up at Bethlehem a heart and mind and vision and a ministry for people with disabilities, especially children. Thumbs up to you for staying strong! Read more at http://www.kellylangston.com. Why Did God Give Me a Child with a Special Need? Present is full of worry, and future brings fear of uncharted territories. 3 months ago. I am so moved and proud to call you my friend. I loved her so much that my heart ached every time I think about her difficult future. And if God were testing me, giving me only what I could handle, why is my child the one with the disability? Thank you for your kind words. In the meantime, you can succeed as the parent of a disabled child. Yes we are lucky to finally know what can and cannot improved. Publius. When I have a rough day at home, I picture God holding her in His arms. I felt powerless and helpless as a mother. What you written is beautiful. Honored to call you our friend. God's love to him. Did God decide that this wonderful, sweet, smart boy should die at age 25? I guess that’s motherhood. Raising a special needs child is no easy task. My girl was also diagnosed with a genetic disorder 2 years ago (Williams syndrome ) it’s a deletion of one of the chromosome. , Beautiful… I loved every single word… Bless her she and know you are a special mummy because you have such a beautiful special child. Beautiful. Spreecast, “Finding Strength for the Autism”, Gratitude: God’s Secret Pathway to Protection, Will It Be All Right? God gave me Elle, a very special special needs child, because he wants to use my voice and writing to protect the happiness and rights of these children. You feel like you have been wronged by God. I even went through the arduous task of filing a grievance against my insurance company for refusing her speech therapy. Thank you for helping me feel.. not alone. I know that he works good for all those who love him, and that good is to be more like his Son. 0 0. jon pike. Thank you for reading. There will be a time when God restores everyone to perfection. If you let go of all worldliness, desires, greed and simply let your soul speak its purest language, you will see Him too. So that answer that I was desperately seeking on that sad night, that answer that no medical doctor, school administrator or social worker could give me, I now know. You may say God has a reason for everything but unless and until you are in the disabled person's shoes, you will never be able to know how exactly we feel. Lewis, The Problem of Pain, (San Francisco: Harper, 2001 [1940]), p.91. . Keep on pushing forward mama!! You are doing great, momma! Watch Queue Queue. The following two tabs change content below. Will she feel less worthy and incapable? She accepts her situation and actually feels others have it worse than she does. Instead, the parent worries about whether or not the child will have another seizure episode in class, be teased again by typical kids in the school, or hold a stable job after turning eighteen. Much of the time, we did not think of Dad as being disabled. How old is she now? I don’t know your son’s struggles but I understand the deep love that comes with deep pain. Thanks for reading, I’m glad I began this journey of sharing stories. God did not look away when our child was born. Why did you allow my child to have a disability? Why Did God Make Me Disabled, Different, and Despondent? Beautiful <3 I wish more parents would speak out. Xo, Ashley, Hi Ashley, thank you so much for taking the time to read my writings and comment. (And What if You Aren’t Sure?). We are really in together Vivien. It’s been one heck of a journey (for lack of better words) but at the core of it all, I’m so thankful that I get to parent and learn with a child like my own. He wanted to give me a gift that no man could take away: A special knowledge of the power, strength, holiness, faithfulness, might and wisdom of God that only comes from NEEDING HIM DESPERATELY. He wanted me to discover just how faithful He really is. For work, I am a Special Education Administrator (Program Specialist) and work with student and their families on a daily basis, mostly at IEP meetings. 0 0. If you’re looking for tips, ideas and inspirations to organize... I’m an old soul and love vintage shopping. Learn more about how we can work together. Answer Save. I don’t know if I would be able to be as strong as you. It really means a lot to me! These terms were all so new to me and I didn’t know where to go and who to turn to. Why are people born sick or ... good things will happen). Anonymous. God’s love restores hope and brings life to our bones. There is joy in every step. Being her mother is a blessing in disguise, a source of genuine happiness and hope where I’m challenged everyday to dig deeper and search for reasons to be thankful during the roughest moments. you ask an interesting question. But most evangelicals assume—with good … Lv 7. "I'm jealous of him, Shmuley." This video is unavailable. Welcome to Christian Forums, a forum to discuss Christianity in a friendly surrounding. Children with special needs have very special qualities. Why do I have a learning disability? My child is profoundly disabled. She dances to the beat of her own drum and grows according to her own timeline. Watching a beautiful young soul struggle to do all the typical things we take for granted like talking, writing and living life without medication could do this for anyone. It took over a hundred pages of collected documents and almost a year of waiting. God has blessed US in a very special way. Angela J. Kim is the creator behind this blog. Will she feel like an outsider? God has a special plan for her and I’m blessed to be a part of it. Thank you for sharing! Kelly’s articles have appeared in P31 Magazine of Proverbs 31 Ministries and focus on her continual hunt to discover God’s fingerprint in every gift that life brings. Yes God has blessed us in so many ways. To give me an example of overcoming physical difficulties. you ask an interesting question. Everything happens for a reason. God doesn't make mistakes! Jesus heals the disabled. No, God does not punish parents by given them disabled children. I thought I was been punish for something I did, little that I knew that she would bring so much love and compassion into my heart, I admit that it has not been easy but all through the years G-d providence and favor has carry me through. Complete healing is guaranteed one Day, but for now we rest in His goodness and celebrate little victories along the way. Rather than try to understand why God didn't give you a child, when you are ready, consider instead how this might be a sign of God's love. It’s not easy and I don’t think it will ever get easier. Another basic reason that God allows some people to be disabled or handicapped is that God will glorify Himself through it. But it seems cruel to afflict my son with a disease just to teach me a lesson. We prayed for years for God to give us a child that is healthy, and that we would grow to love him. I quit my teaching job and began researching full time. I was lonely, sleep deprived, tired and broken. The parent wonders what will happen if he or she becomes old or falls ill. Who will take care of your precious child, who can you trust? Everything is clearer with a diagnosis. God Chooses Mom for Disabled Child Written by Erma Bombeck Published in the Today Newspaper Sept. 4th, 1993 Most women become mothers by accident, some by choice, a … I believe our lives are much fuller thanks to our hardships. Yes Elle is such a sweet gift, thanks for recognizing that in her. Years ago, some friends of our faced a similar situation, and ended up seeing their child as an "angel" sent from God to bless their lives. Not the kind that is controlling, self-seeking and self-gratifying but one that becomes whole through small acts of daily sacrifice and prayers. It was never right. The parent worries about the present, the future, and all the bad and real things that can happen the moment you leave this world. Such a beautiful story Angela. By Erwin W. Lutzer June 28, ... it was ultimately permitted by God. Its great to find a mama friend who is a program specialist! , Hi Angela, I’m so glad I spent some time perusing your wonderful blog today. She crawled for well over a year and began to walk when she was nearly two. Here’s the deal: my faith did get me through, or rather, God did. Thank you. E will always have a special spot in my heart. Relevance. Thank you Tiffany for your friendship and support always. My husband was busy with work and frequently coming home late, and I had no one to talk to about the depth of my sadness. Question is, why God let me suffer like this lonely life while seeing other people enjoying their life with friends. Elle is now eleven years old. Thank you, that means a lot. He does love them, but it is because of sin that they are born disabled . I’d love to hear more about it one day so we can offer love, encouragement and support. God IS good! She has never asked "why me". This was given to me when I learned Jake had Cerebral Palsy. I replied, “God doesn’t want me to start one, He wants me to write.” I’ve done this through the years, and whenever I’m through I’m just going to give a copy to friends and family. Its been hard to feel grateful lately and this has definitely given me a new mindSEt about it all. I knew very early on what was missing from my life. When I see her struggle to put together Lego blocks, string beads or grasp a crayon like other kids, I wondered what kind of life she will lead; how she will be perceived by the world and how she will perceive herself. The writer of this article comes from a family that has a history of genetic-related problems (e.g. God allows all types of bad things to happen to bring glory to his name. Your story is beautiful! It’s not that I didn’t feel love for my daughter, I truly did. Log in. This image of God looking down upon me, trusting me and choosing me, brings me so much peace and gratitude. You and I are sinners. The British Government currently defines disability as having "a physical or mental impairment and the impairment has a substantial and long-term adverse effect on his or her ability to carry out normal day-to-day activities." Going over to read your blog now! God Allows Some Babies To Have Birth Defects. <3. One warning that I have to raise at this point is that we dare not jump to the conclusion that an individual person’s particular disease or affliction is a direct result of some particular sin. Why do some people are born with a low IQ and struggle in life? Every burning question nagged at the back of my mind and few words can describe the depth of my sadness at the time. You’re such a strong mama and inspiration Elle is beautiful! plain and simple. Your voice is missing! What goodness or merit did God see in me that He would choose me as His child?” I hope you’re not too disappointed in my answer: There was absolutely no merit or goodness that caused God to choose you. Michael told me. Many years ago when Elle was a little over two years old and Tess was an infant, I cried silent tears in the dark as my babies were falling asleep next to me. Yes children are so amazing and teach us to be better humans. I’m glad your little girl is much better now! [1] Frequently they will cite verses such as Leviticus 21:16-23: Will she feel sad, lonely or angry? Answer: The issue of sickness is always a difficult one to deal with. He is looking down upon millions of soon-to-be-mothers, pointing at me and saying “There, there she is. 19:14). Praying Scripture over My Child with Special Needs, The Angel of the Lord Encamps Around Those Who Fear Him. I had no idea. My brother died of a brain tumor. To the world she is a special needs child but to me she is perfect. Michael loved meeting him, and the attention the superstar gave the young man greatly endeared Michael to me. I believe that it is the answer. I know your path isn't easy -- and God knows it also. The basics of the faith are lived out within disability. <3, I wish I could reach over and give you a hug. Again, not a God I … You’re a good, strong mama. Go ahead, look a little closer. Yes, the deep love and struggles are real. Question: "Why does God allow sickness?" Yes it’s hard to believe it sometimes, but I believe everything happens for a reason, even the most devastating and painful parts of life! He played ball with us, took us on walks, and went hunting and fishing with us. I can’t tell you how much I needed a personal reminder/perspective of a friend who has a child with special needs, and recognizes the profound blessing of being chosen as their parent. Living with a disability in extreme poverty threatens to rob children and families of the full life Jesus promises us, as well as their hope for the future. , So beautiful.. really loved reading this. Will be sure to ask you for advice when I need it- I’m sure they will come up! God isnt punishing anyone by allowing a child to be born disabled . Luke 18:16 But Jesus called for the children, saying, “Let the little children come to me and do not try to stop them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. I too have walked a very similar journey as yourself and can relate and connect with every word you put here. Why did some people are born ugly? I believe He gives children (regardless of their needs) to imperfect, ill-equipped people who slowly learn how to apply their love to the raising of children. You are an extraordinary mama and God picked the perfect person to mother this little angel. 0 1. 14. Thank you for sharing your story. No one is “born gay.” If you tell me that some people are “born gay,” then you are saying that my God makes mistakes, and my God doesn't make mistakes. I know she will do a great job. Exodus 4:11 is only one of many passages that reveal God causes people to have birth defects, illnesses, sickness or disease as a result of the fall of man in the Garden of Eden (Romans 5:12; 8:22). I want Angela to take care of this child. When he left, I asked Michael why he had given him so much time. 10 Answers. I believe the story has been passed along to thousands of mothers who just recently learned they were given a special gift from God - a Special Needs Child. Elle is such a beautiful young lady. We have both crossed God’s line and fallen short of His glory (Romans 3:23). So that answer that I was desperately seeking on that sad night, that answer that no medical doctor, school administrator or social worker could give me, I now know. She too doesn't believe in a god. While other parents felt joy and pride at their child’s milestones, I grieved and wondered if my child would ever walk, if she would ever talk, if she would ever have a normal life. My husband and I know we are blessed beyond measure, remembering God gives only good gifts , and that a child (any and every child) is a gift from the Lord, a blessing, a reward. When the disciples wondered about the man born blind, Jesus told them, “This happened so that the works of God might be displayed in him” (John 9:3). You will need to register to be able to join in fellowship with Christians all over the world.. We hope to see you as a part of our community soon and God Bless! God gave me Elle, a very special special needs child, because he wants to use my voice and writing to … Thank you for reading and commenting. 3 months ago. My strength comes into its own in your weakness. The doctor explained that Jake might never walk, talk or even recognize us. And isn’t it so amazing that each of our children are so unique and created in His image? Why did he allow YOUR child to have a disability and not the other 5 million children in the world to have a disability… And it reminds me again why she is here with me today. Why do only some people become a victim of war? We are parents. I hope I’m that perfect mom, still striving every day.. Why has he made me suffer? It’s exactly how Ive felt and have been feeling. Thank you for sharing. He gets picked on allot at school and isn't very happy in life. I was given the gift of a handicap to keep me in constant touch with my limitations… At first I didn’t think of it as a gift, and begged God to remove it. Every time I go to birthday parties and social gatherings, I watched other children laugh, run, talk and play with a deep sense of loss, guilt and ache in my heart. Not to mention, the high cost of all the services. Much love to you Ashley xoxo, Speaking hard is vry difficult bt sometimes you have to to it ! But He loves you and wants to help … He will live with his challenges long after I leave this earth. She is special, worthy and beautiful just like all of us. Thanks so much for sharing your story. Parenting by Faith. Why would God choose me? Her disability was not caused by a god nor could it have been prevented by a god. Thanks for reading. I was frustrated at the doctors, administrators and social workers for failing to offer a concrete reason and solution. Can you tell me why G‑d gave me a mental illness? Here's the answer: No one is born “perfect” because there is sin in the world. Sensory processing disorder can be difficult too, our journeys are different but all full of challenges isn’t it? Why would God give two men a "natural" attraction one-for-the-other, but then they can't mate and reproduce because they both have male reproductive organs? when you talk About imagining god Holding your child and choosing you to be Her mother, is the best thing I couldve read. Thank you for sharing this story. God allows all types of bad things to happen to bring glory to his name. I trust her and know she will do this for me.”. Thanks for sharing. Why did I have a child with a disability? So beautiful. True, the apostles did not expressly say that people will be saved only if they repent, believe, and confess. She is who she is, just different with a different set of needs and desires like all of us. Thank you! For you to glorify Him with your life. yes it’s so important to speak out but hard sometimes. There is nothing wrong with her. Elle is beautiful and such a blessing to anyone who knows her. In order to do this he made me a parent, not an educator or lawyer or administrator but a parent who truly understand these kids’ needs from a closer and deeper perspective. All Rights Reserved. so grateful to have read your post. Every milestone was missed and I became used to the disappointment. He did not make a mistake, nor was He punishing us. Grateful reasons self-seeking baby much be developed. Why did God make me with a handicap/learning disability? Answer: The question of what the Bible says about birth defects and why they are allowed to exist is a tough one to handle, especially for parents who have children with disabilities. I took her to specialists, requested multiple tests and researched various disorders and its functions. ADD, ADHD and others) and struggles with genetic defects on a daily basis. I got teary-eyed =’) God is truly amazing! It feels like he is stealing our joy and peace. Question is, why God let me suffer like this lonely life while seeing other people enjoying their life with friends. It did not matter what they said or did to encourage me. He lives in her eyes and every time she looks at me, I feel His amazing grace and overflowing love. 3 months ago. He didn't. Jesus does give a reason for this man’s blindness - “this happened so that the work of God might be ... God did it not because he is vindictive but because he wants us to be reminded that there is more to life than just what we see around us. It really means a lot, especially on days when parenthood is not so easy. Neither of us are. You may say God has a reason for everything but unless and until you are in the disabled person's shoes, you will never be able to know how exactly we feel. God is good always. I'm figuring that you know someone who is disabled, you, your child, a friend/family member or their child. Worse, I shot my bitter arrows at friends and family, who did nothing but show me love and support. Really? And, hopefully you’re in a great school district, but if anything ever comes up with her IEP that you question or wonder about – although I’m sure you’re already an expert- please don’t hesitate to use me as a resource! The other is full of the talents … I was more broken by the time Carter had his second birthday than I have ever revealed publicly, and I spent long, wakeful nights in the manner that is familiar to millions of people of faith: on my knees, the holy book of my tradition open in front of me, begging God for relief for me and my family and healing for my child. Nothing comes into a believer’s life without first coming through the hands of our loving heavenly Father. I’m sure you would be able to too. I thank God for the coordinator of our Disability Ministry, Brenda Fischer. Why did God give me a learning disability? When we prayed for healing, fully expecting God to remove our son’s autism, God taught us that His sovereign glory was being seen through the disability. Sometimes people argue that the Bible discriminates against disabled people. Fifteen years ago G-d entrusted me with a beautiful daughter I named her: Rebecca Rose she was born with down syndrome, at first I did not know why me! Life is not perfect but sure it has perfect moments. As a child growing up, my father did everything he put his mind to. When Jesus healed people it gave evidence of the sovereignty of God. Her fingers are fused together giving her hands a “mitten” appearance. I have a teenage family member who is intellectually disabled since birth. We began early intervention for Elle since she was only one year old but none of it seemed to help. This hit me At the core. Jesus said, “Suffer the little children to come unto me, for to such belongs the kingdom of God” (Matt. <3. Without a clear diagnosis, it seemed impossible to get her the help she needs. I also believe that is why He gave you a child Through her I learned a lot, grew a lot, and am now able to find reasons for gratitude anywhere I go. I envied the sweet, affectionate interactions they enjoyed with their children and the ease of their mini-vanned, suburban lives. The key is remembering that God’s ways are higher than our ways (Isaiah 55:9). I used to think I might be the opposite of special, as if I might be getting punished, but I now realize how wrong I was. I tried my best to mask my emotions of course, and did whatever I can do to get her all the help I can. it's like a picture of our spiritual state, we are broken and full of fault, but if we accept Jesus as our personal Savior, he's like the doctor and heals all our brokenness and forgets all our sins May you and your family be blessed with so much more =), Thank you so much for your kind words. God didn’t allow me to have 2 special needs children for no reason at all. God doesn’t give “special” children to “special” parents. Now with another one, I guess I’ll have another set of lessons to learn! Through her I learn every day the true meaning of unconditional love. May this be true of you. In fact,... Today I want to share my story about how I... Family Travel Tips To Wailea, Hawaii We’ve been traveling to... Desert Springs is one of our favorite getaways in Southern... Best Family Friendly Luxury Hotel In Las Vegas: Wynn &... 10 Reasons Why You Should Visit Dubai For Your Next... © Mommy Diary ®. Thank you Diana for your kind words! Both my children have sensory processing disorder and it comes with it’s own set of challenges, but are minimal on the scale of how bad it could really be. One is full of the challenges the soul has to face during its lifetime. Rather than ask God why we or a loved one have a disability or handicap, we should ask Him to reveal to us how we can honor Him through this disability in our lives. I’m glad you guys finally have a diagnosis and that she is thriving well in classes. Everyone probably has some sort of learning difference in at least one part of his or her brain that makes it work slower in some ways. Equality Act 2010: Guidance.. C.S. Thank you for reading. Three times I did that, and then he told me, My grace is enough; it’s all you need. I'm envious." Lv 7. We all need to keep on the watch and continue to pray for that day (the Lord's Prayer, Our Father) They called it speech disorder, hypotonia (low muscle tone) or developmental delay. I had no idea you were a program specialist for a school district– I’m very familiar with the IEP process and know our district’s program specialist pretty well too. You and other parents like you are my inspiration. I guess this is how motherhood teaches us valuable lessons, that of unconditional love. Developmental problems or genetics did. Why did some people were born poor? God uses people's brokenness to reveal His glory to mankind. 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